Over the years, I've written dozens (hundreds?) of articles about sex and relationships, mostly for Glamour and Mademoiselle magazines. This particular article on "What Men Really Want" is one of my favorites, and was inspired by the many repeated questions I was receiving at a website I was hosting at the time, "Live Girl," a humorous forum on dating, love, and you-know-what. Howard Stern works out at the same gym I do, and I told him about this article when it came out, and he invited me on his show to talk about it. I was initially terrified, but it turned out to be a lot of fun, and Howard was incredibly gracious on the air, although my parents, who'd never listened to his show before, didn't quite see it that way.